Niki Lauda’s “reason for looking ugly” was that he had been in accidents as a Formula 1 driver.
I hope no one calls you ugly.
But maybe you get called something else from time to time?
Too hard, too kind, too fast, too slow...
One consequence of being a leader (and yes, every parent is also a leader) is that you stick out, you call the shots.
You may be the one taking the blame and the one making sure the whole team gets the credit.
To paraphrase Niki Lauda:
Leaders have a reason to be criticized.
What reason is that for you?
For doing too little, too much or just doing things differently?
Feedback is inevitable.
Just make sure you get criticized for reasons you think are worth it.