“I don’t have time to do what I want! I have to do these 47 things on my To Do list first!”
No you don’t.
By the time you have taken care of the 47 things you will have added another 48.
If you don’t give yourself time to do what you want to do, you will get exhausted and bored.
When you’re bored you’re not happy.
When you’re not happy, you’re not you.
Do you still want to focus on what you “should” do?
Then remember that life is supposed to be fun.
You should be happy.